I don't even know where to begin, so I won't. It just wouldn't be productive. It's ironic though; I've been furious about your enabling for years now. Now that the ice has been broken about your enabling, I just don't have any words for you. I guess sometimes it's just best to say nothing at all. I see now that God has been preparing me for this over the last month. A month ago, my attitude and my words would have been very different right now. I'm thankful to see God working in my life and I'm thankful that He's given me lots of truths to hold on to during this season, however long or short it may be. It is what it is, huh?
I will only say this: I'm disgusted by the fact that you would attack my beloved during your defense of your beloved. The words you said can be forgiven and forgotten for the most part, but you left a nasty wound. Wounds heal over time, but they do leave scars. You did this; you created some massive drama for yourself that you'll hopefully regret soon. I'm not sure how long it will take though, since you do enjoy a little drama from time to time. Your hateful words and attitude have scarred your relationship with my beloved. The scar may eventually fade, but it will always be there as a reminder of the time that you made your choice. You have to live with that. We may come back around, but I just don't know when (if) it will be possible. The wound is just too fresh right now. You made your choice, Little Miss Enabler. As the expression goes, you made your bed, now lie in it.